Prayer for husbands in adultery

A Prayer for my Husband Father in the name of Jesus I seek you for the mind of my Husband for the weapons of his warfare are not carnal but mighty through you to the pulling down of strongholds. For these strongholds have set themselves up against his mind, his emotion, spiritual relationship, his finances, family and marriage. Therefore I cast down imaginations, and every high thing that has set itself up in his mind to exalt itself against the knowledge God, and to bring into captivity every thought of lust, pride, guilt, insecurity, uncleanness,promiscurity and unforgiveness. But transform his mind by renewing it through the power of prayers, songs, spiritual teachings redirect his mind. Where his conscience has been seared by the negative instill that which is moral and good. Stir the Holy Spirit to convict him when he is making wrong decisions. Never let him lean to his own understanding but acknowledge you in all of his way. Where Satan wants him to doubt and believe the lies that he has placed in his mind give him the helmet of salvation to protect his mind for Lord your word is sharper that any two edged sword it penetrates to the dividing soul and spirit, joint and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of his heart. Nothing is hidden from you. I pray that thou would keep him in perfect peace. May he come to know you and trust in you. No more shall past relationships come to mind, or be remembered, visit, nor be repaired neither shall he be able to start new ones that are not of you Father. He will love you with all his heart with his entire mind and with all his soul. With readiness of mind he shall search the scriptures daily for his daily walk with you. He will serve the Lord with all humility of mind. That he will know the mind of the Spirit because it maketh intercession for him according to the will of God. Therefore let this mind, which was in Christ, also be in him.Ceate in him a clean heart and renew a right spirit within him. I pray that he will present his body a living sacrifice Holy and acceptable unto you. Deliver him from the power of darkness save his soul Lord. He will overcome by the blood of Jesus. And no weapon that is formed against him shall be able to prosper. Therefore every life that he has adjusted to, that is not of God destroy it in the name of Jesus. Deliver him from every cage mentality in the name of Jesus. Every demonic cage restricting his life receives the fire of God on it. Every cage of non-achievement working against him return to the sender, bring him out every house of bondage. Every good thing that has been kept from his life I thank you Lord that it will find him by fire. He will achieve what no one in his family has been allowed to achieve. And I pray that he will love his wife as Christ loves the church and also died for it, that he will love her as he loves himself. In Jesus name amen.

For Married Women Only

I pray this prayer for my husband every day in my FLY time and encourage you to do the

same and allow God work on the areas of concern or challenge in your marriage. It’s a

bit lengthy, but isn’t your marriage worth it?

A Daily Prayer For Your Husband

Dear Father, I pray for my husband today, that You may surround him with favor as a shield. (Ps.

5:12)

May You open my husband’s ears to hear Your voice; may You open his eyes to see Your guidance:

and may You open his heart to receive Your wisdom. May You Give him a spirit of wisdom and of

revelation in the knowledge of You, and may the eyes of his heart be enlightened so that he may

know what is the hope of Your calling, what are the riches of the glory of Your inheritance in the

saints and what is the surpassing greatness of Your power toward us who believe. (Eph. 1:17-19)

I bind the spirits of rebellion, stubbornness and doublemindedness far from my husband in the name

of Jesus, that he may be free to walk in Your way, and that he may be stable in his ways. (James.

1:8)

I pray that You will give my husband fresh insight and inspiration to do his work and that You will

renew his strength as the eagle’s. (Isa. 40:31)

May you surround my husband with angelic protection in every place he is. (Ps. 91:11)

And may You bring victory to him in every place the sole of his foot treads. (Josh. 1:3)

May You prosper my husband in every task that he puts his hand to and may he Be fruitful in all he

undertakes as he seeks the counsel of wise men and delights and meditates in Your word. (Ps. 1:2)

As my husband delights in You, may You give him the desires of his heart. (Ps. 37:3)

I bind the spirits of pride, spiritual blindness, self-sufficiency and self-righteousness far from my

husband in the name of Jesus, in order that he will give you all the glory for what You are doing in

his life. I bind the spirits of philosophy, deception and religious tradition far from my husband in the

name of Jesus, so that he will not be deluded or pushed off the path that You have chosen for him.

(Col. 2:8)

And so that he may attain all the wealth that comes from the full assurance of understanding,

resulting in a true knowledge of God’s mystery, that is, Christ Himself, in whom are hidden all the

treasures Of wisdom and knowledge. (Col. 2:2-3)

May wisdom enter my husband’s heart and knowledge be pleasant to his soul; may discretion guard

him, and understanding watch over him to deliver him from the way of evil. (Prov. 2:10-12)

May my husband trust in You with all his heart, and not lean on his own understanding; may he

acknowledge You in all his ways, and may You make his paths straight. (Prov. 3:5-6)

In the name of Jesus. I also bind the spirits of procrastination, laziness, complacency and foolishness

far from my husband, so that he will not be delayed or diverted from moving ahead with you in the

works that You have already created for him to accomplish.

(Eph. 2:10)

May my husband not be carnally minded, which is death, but may he be spiritually minded, which is

life and peace. (Rom. 8:6)

May he be filled with the knowledge of Your will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that he

may walk in a manner worthy of You, to please You in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work

and increasing in the knowledge of You; strengthened with all power according to Your glorious

might for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience: joyously giving thanks to You, who have

qualified us to share in the inheritance of eth saints in light. (Col. 1:9-12)

May You give my husband a deep thirst for Your word and may You give him a strong hunger to

move in the power of the Holy Spirit. Father, I know that You will lead him into all truth by your

Spirit. (John 16:13)

I thank You and praise You and have confidence that since You have begun a good work in my

husband, You will complete it. (Phil. 1:6)

You will cause my husband to excel in all that he puts his hand to, as I trust You to guide him, since

it is not by might, nor by power, but by Your Spirit. (Zech. 4:6)

Sharpen my husband’s awareness of spiritual things, so that he will be effective in his role as the

spiritual head of our household. (Eph. 5:23)

And help me to submit to his leadership in a way that is pleasing to You. (Col. 3:18)

May our love abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, and may we be filled

with the fruit of righteousness, which comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.

(Phil. 1:9-11)

May the words of his mouth and the meditations of his heart acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, our

strength and our Redeemer. (Ps. 19:14)

May my husband be slow to anger, and not quick temped. (Prov. 14:29)

And may he have a soothing tongue. (Prov. 15:4)

May you give my husband his heart’s desire, and not withhold the request of his lips.

(Ps. 21:2)

May You give my husband to know Your ways, O Lord, may You teach him your paths, and may You

lead him in Your truth. (Ps. 25:4-5)

May You reveal Your secrets to my husband, and may You make him to know Your covenant. (Ps.

25:14)

May You hide my husband in the secret place of Your presence from the conspiracies of man, and

may You keep him secretly in a shelter from the strife of tongues. (Ps. 31:20)

When he is tempted, I thank You that You will always provide the way of escape, that he may be

able to endure it. (1 Cor. 10:13)

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

Ps. 90:17 And let the favor of the Lord our God be upon my husband and do confirm for him the

work of his hands, yes, confirm the work of his hands!

Prayers For Husbands

Lord, I come to You in praise and thanksgiving for who You are. I will extol You at all times; Your praise will always be on my lips. You are faithful to all Your promises. Thank You, Lord that You are turning the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers this month of June. I pray that HUSBAND as a father has compassion on his children, as the Lord has compassion on those who fear him.

Blessed is my husband who always fears the Lord, but HUSBAND who hardens his heart falls into trouble. Lord, You called HUSBAND to be free. Therefore, do not let sin reign in my husband’s mortal body so that HUSBAND obeys its evil desires. I pray that HUSBAND will not use his freedom to indulge in the sinful nature; rather, HUSBAND will serve others in love. My prayer is that HUSBAND will live by the Spirit, and he will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that HUSBAND does not do what he wants. Guard my husband’s life and rescue HUSBAND let him not be put to shame, for he will take refuge in You. May integrity and uprightness protect my husband, because my hope is in You. From the Lord comes deliverance for HUSBAND May Your blessings be on my husband today. Selah

I am confident of this, that He who began a good work in my husband and our family will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Lord, I have not stopped praying for my beloved husband asking You to fill him up with the knowledge of Your will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding.

Lord, Your Word says that blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But my husband’s delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law HUSBAND meditates day and night. HUSBAND is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever HUSBAND does prospers.

Thank You that You have rescued HUSBAND from the dominion of darkness and You are bringing him into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom he has redemption, the forgiveness of sins. I pray that out of Your glorious riches You may strengthen HUSBAND with power through Your Spirit in his inner being so that Christ may dwell in HUSBAND s heart through faith. I pray that You will make HUSBAND to be made new in the attitude of his mind, and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. I pray that HUSBAND as a father will not exasperate his children but instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. I pray that my husband will love me, his wife as he loves himself, and I pray that I will respect my husband.

Let me not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time I will reap a harvest if I do not give up. I am like a woman in childbirth, I cry out, I gasp and pant. Lord, lead HUSBAND who is blind by ways they have not known, along unfamiliar paths You will guide them; You will turn the darkness into light before him and make the rough places smooth. These are the things You will do. Thank You that You will not forsake my husband and all my loved ones. Praise your Holy Name. Amen.

MIRACLE OF THE MOUTH LIST

MIRACLE OF THE MOUTH LIST

Pray this list everyday for your husband placing his name in blanks. What you speak will be...and if you want your mate to be these things..It is recommended printing off the list and speaking them over your mate at least once a day. These lists were compiled by Joyce Meyers in her teachings of Miracles of the mouth. They work folks! Speak them over yourself and watch changes come in you!

~~~~~~~~~~~ WHO THEY ARE IN CHRIST~~~~~~~~~~~

______________ is complete in Him Who is the Head of all principality and power. (Colossians 2:10)

_______________ is alive with Christ (Ephesians 2:5)

_______________ is free from the law of sin and death (Romans 8:2)

______________ is far from oppression, and fear does not come near him/her (Isaiah 54:14)

______________ is born of God, and the evil one does not touch him/her (1 John 5:18)

______________ is holy and without blame before Him in love (1 Peter 1:16; Ephesians 1:4)

______________ has the mind of Christ (Philippians 2:5; 1 Corinthians 2:16)

______________ has the peace of God that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7)

______________ has the Greater One living in him/her, greater is He Who is in ____________ then he who is in the world (1 John 4:4)

_______________ has received the gift of righteousness and reign as a king in life by Jesus Christ (Romans 5:17)

_______________ has received the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Jesus, the eyes of his/her understanding being enlightened (Ephesians 1:17, 18)

_______________ has received the power if the Holy Spirit to lay hands on the sick and see them recover, to cast out demons, to speak with new tongues. __________ has power over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means harm him/her. (Mark 16:17, 18; Luke 10:17; 19)

______________ has put off the old man and have put on the new man, which is renewed in the knowledge after the image of Him Who created him/her. (Colossians 3:9, 10)

______________ has given, and it is given to him/her, good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over, men give into his/her bosom (Luke 6:38)

______________ has no lack for God supplies all of his/her needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19)

_____________ can quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one with his/her shield of faith (Ephesians 6:16)

_____________ can do all things through Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:13)

_____________ shall do even greater works then Christ Jesus (John 14:12)

______________ shows forth the praises of God Who has called him/her out of darkness into His marvelous light (1 Peter 2:9)

_____________ is Gods child - for he/she is born again of the incorruptible seed of the Word of God, which lives and abides forever. (1 Peter 1:23)

_____________ is Gods workmanship, created in Christ unto good works (Ephesians 2:10)

_____________ is a new creature in Christ (II Corinthians 5:17)

_____________ is a spirit being - alive to God (1 Thessalonians 5:23; Romans 6:11)

______________ is a believer, and the light of the Gospel shines in his/her mind (II Corinthians 4:4)

______________ is a doer of the Word and blessed in his/her actions (James 1:22, 25)

_____________ is a joint - heir with Christ (Romans 8:17)

_____________ is more than a conqueror through Him Who loves him/her (Romans 8:37)

_____________ is a over comer by the blood of the Lamb and the word of his/her testimony (Revelation 12;11)

_____________ is a partaker of His divine nature (II Peter 1:3, 4)

____________ is a ambassador for Christ (II Corinthians 5:20)

____________ is a part of a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a purchased people (I Peter 2:9)

____________ is the righteousness of God in Jesus Christ (II Corinthians 5:21)

____________ is the temple of the Holy Spirit, he/she is not his/her own (I Corinthians 6:19)

____________ is the head and not the tail, ___________ is above only and not beneath (Deuteronomy 28:13)

____________ is the light of the world (Matthew 5:14)

____________ is His elect, full of mercy, kindness, humility, and longsuffering (Romans 8:33; Colossians 3:12)

____________ is forgiven of all his/her sins and washed in the Blood (Ephesians 1:7)

_____________ is delivered from the power of darkness and translated into Gods kingdom (Colossians 1:13)

_____________ is redeemed from the curse of sin, sickness, and poverty (Galatians 3:13; Deuteronomy 28:15-68)

_____________ is firmly rooted, built up, established in his/her faith and overflowing with gratitude (Colossians 2:7)

_____________ is called of God to be the voice of His praise (II Timohty 1:9, Psalm 66:

_____________ is healed by the stripes of Jesus (I Peter 2:24; Isaiah 53:5)

_____________ is raised up with Christ and seated in Heavenly places (Colossians 2:12, Ephesians 2:6)

____________ is greatly loved by God (Colossians 3:12, Romans 1:7; I Thessalonians 1:4; Ephesians 2:4)

____________ is strengthened with all might according to His glorious power (Colossians 1:11)

____________ is submitted to God, and the devil flees from him/her because he/she resists him in the Name of Jesus (James 4:7)

____________ presses on toward the goal to win the prize to which God in Christ Jesus is calling us upward (Philippians 3:14)

For God has not given _________ a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind (II Timothy 1:7)

It is not _______________ who live, but Christ lives in _______________ (Galatians 2:20)

Prayer against adultery

pray a hedge about your spouse:

Hear my prayer, O Lord, give ear to my cry, do not be silent at my tears. Put my tears in a bottle, are they not in Thy book? Since I am afflicted and needy, let the Lord be mindful of me. Thou art my help and deliverer. Do not delay, O my God." (From Psalms 56 and 40)

My close friend, _____, in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted up his heel against me. For it is not an enemy who reproaches me, then I could bear it, nor is it one who hates me who has exalted himself against me, then I could hide myself from him. But it is _______, a man my equal, my companion and my familiar friend, we who had sweet fellowship together." (Psalms 41 & 55)

Let the evil of the wicked come to an end, but establish the righteous. In the net which they hid, their own foot has been caught. Hold them guilty, O God, by their own devices, let them fall! In the multitude of their transgression thrust them out for they are rebellious against Thee. Let them be appalled because of their shame. All my enemies shall be ashamed and greatly dismayed. They shall turn back, they shall suddenly be ashamed. Let me not be put to shame, O Lord, for I call upon Thee. Let the wicked be put to shame, let them be silent. In Thee, O Lord, I have taken refuge. In Thy righteousness deliver me. (Psalms 7, 9 & 31)

Though they intend evil against Thee, and devise a plot, they will not succeed. When my enemies turn back they stumble and perish before Thee. Thou hast blotted out their name forever and ever. The very memory of them has perished. Yet a little while and the wicked man will be no more. And you will look carefully for his place and he will not be there. But the humble will inherit the land and will delight themselves in abundant properity. (From Psalm 21)

"Thou dost surround the righteous with a shield. In peace I will both lie down and sleep. For Thou alone dost make me dwell in safety. Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and call upon Me in the day of trouble. I shall rescue you, and you will honor Me. (From Psalm 4)

"Be strong, and let your heart take courage, all you who hope in the Lord. Be their shepard also and carry them forever. I would have despaired if I had not believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord, in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord. (From Psalm 27)

"For your huband is your Maker, Whose name is the Lord of Hosts; for the Lord has called you, like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit, even a wife of ones youth when she is rejected, says Your God" (Isaiah 54:5-6)

"I ask You, Father, to rebuke and bind satan in the Name and through the Blood of the Lord Jesus Christ. I ask you to build a Hedge of Thorns around ______ so that anyone who is interested in him will lose interest immediately and leave. I base my prayer on the command of Your Word which says, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" and "Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." and, "The husband should fufill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wifes body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husbands body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.", as well as, "Dont you know that you yourselves ae Gods temple and that Gods spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys (defiles) Gods temple, God will destroy him, for Gods temple is sacred, and you are that temple", "The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. By His power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and and unite them with a prostitute? Never! Flee from sexual immorality. All others sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, Who is in you, Whom you have received from God? You are not your own, you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body." Therefore I will block ______ path with thorn bushes, I will wall ________ in so ________ cant find his way. ______ shall chase after his lovers but not catch them. _____ will look for them but not find them, then ____ will say, I will go back to my wife, ____, for I was better off then than now. Therefore I will allure ____, bring ______ into the wilderness, and speak kindly to _____. For I will remove the names of Baals from _____s mouth. Then the Lord said to me, "Go love ______, a (man) yet an adulterer. For this reason a man, _____, will leave his Father and Mother and be united to his wife, _____, and then they, _____ and _____, will become one flesh. Havent you read He replied that at the beginning the creator made them male and female and said "For this reason a man, ______, will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, _____ and the shall become one flesh". So they, _____ and _____, are no longer two but one, therefore what God has joined together let man not separate. I hate divorce, says the Lord thy God of Israel. Husband, ______, love your wife _____ just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy cleansing her, _____, by the washing with water through the Word. In this same way husband, _____, ought to love his wife, ____, as his own body. Drink water from your own cistern, and fresh water from your own well ______. Should your springs be desperesed abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let them be yours alone, and not for strangers with you. Let your fountains be blessed, ____, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, _____. As a loving hind and graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Place ____ like a seal over _____s heart, like a seal on ____s arm, for ______s love for ____ is as strong as death, _____s jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. Many waters cannot quench _____s love for _____, rivers cannot wash it away. If _____ were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned. For though _____ walks in the flesh, _____ does not war according to the flesh, for the weapons of ______s warfare are not of the felsh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of the fortresses. _____ is destroying every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and _____ is taking every thought captive to the obediance of Christ. For I now rejoice, not that ____ were made sorrowful, but that ____ were made sorrowful to the point of repentance, for ____ were made sorrowful according to the will of God, in order that ____ might not suffer loss in anything through us. For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation. but the sorrow of the world produces death. Lord God, Your Word says that if I see a man sin and it is not a sin that leads to death, that I should pray for him and if I pray for him, You will give him life. Father God, in the Name of Jesus and in the Blood of Jesus shed for _____ and I on the cross of Calvary, that both _____ and I accepted as a payment for our ransom, and asked Jesus to take our sins upon Himself so that we may have life, I come before You day and night unceasingly lying my prayer and petitions before You for ______'s life. Bring him out of captivity Lord God, give him life in You, and restore him to his land. Your Word is Your promise to us that hope in You. Please Lord God, do not hide Your face from me, reach down and rescue us from the pit. Keep Your Word Father God, show us Your mighty hand in our marriage circumstance as I do not and will not focus on the circumstance itself, but will focus on You, keeping my eyes upon You Lord, knowing that You will turn our marriage circumstance around, that You, Lord God, will reverse the curse on our marriage! I love You Lord, I thank You with all my heart. You, Lord God, are my first love, my hope, my light in the darkness, my reason for living. For the only thing worth living for has been the blessing of being chosen by You Father God, to be a heir in Your Kingdom, to be called Your child, to know that I am spoken for by You. Preserve my life Lord God, preserve Kevins life, preserve what You have joined together and make it whole in You. I praise Your Holy Name. Lord life me up and set me on the solid rock and I will endlessly sing and dance my praises to You and I will proclaim Your mighty works all the days of my life! I love and thank you Father God..forever and ever, and I ask all in the precious Name of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen

 

The Armor Of God Prayer

(Pray this over you & spouse every morning)

Heavenly Father, I praise and worship You. I cover myself and _________ with the Blood of the Lord Jesus Christ as our protection. I pray that the blessed Holy Spirit would enable me during this time of prayer. I take a stand against all the workings of satan that would hind my prayers. I address myself only to the True and Living God. I reject any involvement of satan in my thoughts and words. satan, I command you, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, to leave mine and _________s presence with all your demons. I bring the Blood of the Lord Jesus Christ between you and me, I bring the Blood of the Lord Jesus Christ between you and _________. For greater is He that lives within us then you who lives in the world!

Heavenly Father, I recognize that You are worthy to receive all glory, honor and praise. I am thankful that You have loved _________ and I from past eternity. That You sent the Lord Jesus Christ into the world to die as _________ and I's substitute. I am thankful that Jesus came as my representative and that through Him You have completely forgiven _________ and I, You have adopted _________ and I into Your family, You have assumed all responsibility for _________ and I, You have given _________ and I eternal life, You have given _________ and I the perfect righteousness of the Lord Jesus Christ, so we are now justified. I am thankful that in Him, You have made _________ and I complete, and that You have offered Yourself to _________ and I to be our daily help and strength.

Heavenly Father, open _________ and mine eyes that we might see how great You are and how complete Your provision is for us this day. I am thankful that the victory the Lord Jesus Christ won for _________ and I on the Cross and in His resurrection has been given to us seating us with the Lord Jesus Christ in the Heavenlies. I recognize by faith that all wicked spirits and satan himself are under mine and _________s feet. I declare, therefore, that satan and his wicked spirits are subject to _________ and I in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

I am thankful for the spiritiual Armor You have provided. I put upon _________ and I, the Girdle of Truth, the Breastplate of Righteousness, the Sandals of Peace, and the Helmet of Salvation. I lift up for _________ and I the Shield of Faith against all the fiery darts of the enemy, and I take in hand for _________ and I, the Sword of the Spirit, the Word of God. I choose to use Your Word against all the forces of evil in mine and _________s life and marriage. I put this Armor on us and live in complete dependence on You. I refuse in this day to believe my feelings. I hold up the Shield of Faith against all accusations, distortions, and insinuations that satan would put into mine and _________s minds. I claim the fullness of the Will of God for our lives today.

I am thankful, Heavenly Father, that the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds, to the casting down of imagination and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and to bring every thought into obedience to the Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, in _________s and I lives and marriage today I tear down the strongholds of satan and smash the plans of satan that have been formed against us. I tear down the strongholds of satan against mine and _________s minds, and I surrender our minds to you, blessed Holy Spirit. I affirm, Heavenly Father, that You have not given _________ and I the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of strong mind. I break and smash the strongholds of satan formed against _________ and I's emotions today and I give our emotions to You. I smash the strongholds of satan formed against _________ and I's wills today, I give our wills to You and we choose to make the right decisions of faith. I smash the strongholds of satan formed against _________ and I's bodies today, I give our bodys to You recognizing that we are Your temples. I rejoice in Your mercy and goodness.

I am grateful, Heavenly Father, that Lord Jesus Christ spoiled all the principalities and powers triumphing over them in Himself. I claim all that victory for mine and _________s life and marriage today. I reject all the insinuations, accusations, and the temptations of satan that come against both _________ and I. I affirm that the Word of God is true. I choose to live today in the light of God's Word. I choose, Heavenly Father, to live in obedience to You and in fellowship with Yourself.

Open mine and _________s eyes and show us the areas of our lives that do not please You. Work in _________ and I to cleanse us from all areas in our lives that would give satan a foothold against us. Have us in every way stand in all that it means to be Your adopted child. Have us welcome all the ministry of the Holy Spirit into our lives. By faith and in dependance of You, may we put off fleshly works. Let _________ and I stand in all the victory of the resurrection and the provision He had made for us to live above sin.

Today, have _________ and I put off all forms of selfishness and put on love. Let _________ and I put off all forms of fear and put on courage. Have _________ and I put off all forms of weakness and put on strength. Have _________ and I put off all forms of lust and put on righteousness, purity, and honesty. I am trusting in You to show _________ and I how to make this practical in our daily lives.

I stand in the victory of the ascension and glorification of the Lord Jesus Christ, where all the principalities and powers were made subject to Him. I claim mine and _________s places in Christ as victorious with Him over all the enemies of our souls. I completely surrender _________ and I, and our marriage, to You Heavenly Father, as a living sacrifice. I choose that we not be conformed to this world. I choose that _________ and I be transformed by the renewing of our minds. I pray that You would show _________ and I Your will and enable us to walk in all the fullness of Your will today. Blessed Holy Spirit, I pray that You would fill _________ and I. Come into mine and _________s lives, break down every idol and cast out every foe.

I am thankful that You have made a provision, so that today _________ and I can lived filled with the Spirit of God with love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, meekness, faithfulness, and self control in our lives. I recognize that this is Your will for _________ and I. I therefore reject and resist all the endeavors of satan to rob _________ and I of the will of God.

Heavenly Father, I pray that now and through this day You would strengthen and enlighten _________ and I. Show _________ and I the way satan is hindering, tempting, lying and distorting the truth in our lives. Enable _________ and I to be the kind of persons that would please You. Enable _________ and I to be aggressive in prayer and in trusting You. Enable _________ and I to be aggressive mentally, to think about and practice Your Word, and to give You Your rightful place in our lives.

Again, I pray that You, blessed Holy Spirit, would bring all the work of the crucifixion, all the work of the resurrection, all the work of the glorification, and all the work of the Penecost into mine and _________s life and marriage today. I surrender _________ and I, and our marriage, to You. I refuse to be dscouraged, I refuse to be defeated. For You are the God of all hope. You have proven Your power by resurrecting Jesus Christ from the dead, and I claim in every way this victory over all the satanic forces in mine and _________s life and marriage. I pray this all in the precious Name of the Lord Jesus Christ with thanksgiving. I love and honor and bless You every day of our lives Lord, You rescue us from the snare of Your enemy because of Your unfailing love for us, and we give all praise and glory to You! Amen, Amen, Amen

Father, I pray that You will deliver ______________ and _______________ from self-centeredness.

Grant that ____________ and _____________ will have a servant's heart (Ephesians 2:3; 2 Timothy 3:2; Matthew 20:28; Philippians 2:5-11).

Father, in the name of Jesus, I pray that You would bind the work of Satan from this marriage. He would love nothing more than to destroy ____________ and ______________'s marriage. I ask You to stop His work in their lives and destroy his attacks against this marriage (John 8:44; Genesis 3:11-13).

Lord, I ask You to convict and deal with any unconfessed sin in ____________ or __________'s life. Enable us/them to deal with any sin that is hindering their marriage (1 John 1:9).

Father, I plead that ____________ and ____________ will speak the truth to one another in love. Cause ____________ and _____________ to honestly share their feelings without being arrogant or spiteful. Through love and honesty, enable _____________ and ______________ to work through

their differences (Ephesians 4:25; 1 John 4:7, 11).

Holy Spirit, I pray that You would create a spirit of forgiveness in ____________ and ______________. In the name of Jesus, I plead that we/they will put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander, along with every form of malice. In the place of this, I pray that we/they would be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other as God for Christ's sake has forgiven them (Matthew 6:14-15; Ephesians 4:31-32).

Father, I plead that You would bring _____________ and ______________ into a more intimate relationship with Yourself. Cause us/them to long for You as the deer longs for water. Grant us/them a hunger in their soul for You. Create within us/them a spirit of prayer, especially for each other (Psalm 42:1-2, 63:1; John 17:3; Colossians 4:2).

Holy Spirit, I plead that You will convict ___________ and _____________ about the problems in their marriage. I pray that Your conviction would be deep and sharp. Deliver __________ and ____________ from being defensive and self-righteous about the problems in the marriage and Your conviction concerning these things. Grant that ___________ and ___________ would humbly accept Your conviction and will change as You deal with him or her (John 16:7)

Father, I ask that You would deal with any past problems in _____________ or ______________'s life that is causing trouble now. Your Word declares that You heal the brokenhearted and that You bind up their wounds. In the name of Jesus, I ask You to be true to Your Word and heal the emotional wounds and baggage that we/they have in our/their lives (Psalm 147:3).

Father, in the name of Jesus and by the power of Your Holy Spirit, I plead that _______________ will love ________________ as Christ loved the church. Cause _____________ to have a sacrificial and serving love toward ______________. At the same time, in the name of Jesus and by the power

of the Holy Spirit, I plead that _______________ will be a loving and submissive wife. Cause ____________ to support and minister to ____________ (Ephesians 5:22-33).

Father, I pray that You would rekindle passion and desire between ______________ and ______________. I ask You to bless our/their relationship and cause them to rejoice in it. I pray that

______________ and ____________ would be satisfied and exhilarated with each other's love (Proverbs 5:15-23).

Lord Jesus, You have declared that what therefore god has joined together, let no man separate. You have declared the will of the Father. It is the Father's will for marriages to be for a lifetime. You desire one man to be with one woman for life. This is Your heart's desire. Because this is Your heart's desire, I plead with you to save and strengthen _____________ and ______________'s marriage. Because this is Your heart's desire, I ask in the name of Jesus that You will do whatever it takes to protect and defend this marriage. O God, do not let sin, Satan, circumstances, or problems separate what You have joined together

(Mark 10:2-9).

SCRIPTURE VERSES On Communication

Good communication is said to be a lifeline to the health of a good marriage. It’s pretty obvious to all who are wise, that there are good ways we can communicate with each other in word and deed, and harmful ways.

To help you to better discern the good from the harmful, you will find below, scripture verses dealing with communication. The following verses come from the New International Version of the Bible unless noted otherwise:

• Do not be quick with your mouth, do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God. God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few (Ecclesiastes 5:2).
• If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless (James 1:26).
• The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly (Proverbs 15:2).
• The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil (Proverbs 15:28).
• But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned (Matthew 12:37).
• A wise man’s heart guides his mouth, and his lips promote instruction (Proverbs 16:23).
• The lips of the righteous know what is fitting, but the mouth of the wicked only what is perverse (Proverbs 10:29).
• A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger (Proverbs 15:1).
• Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing (Proverbs 12:18).
• A wise man fears the Lord and shuns evil, but a fool is hotheaded and reckless. A quick-tempered man does foolish things, and a crafty man is hated (Proverbs 14:16-17).
• A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly (Proverbs 14:29).
• An angry man stirs up dissension, and a hot-tempered one commits many sins (Proverbs 29:22).
• Do not associate with a man given to anger; or go with a hot-tempered man, lest you learn his ways, and find a snare for yourself (Proverbs 22:24-25).
• A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered (Proverbs 17:27).
• Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him (Proverbs 29:20).
• Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes (Proverbs 26:4-5).
• A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control (Proverbs 29:11).
• A fool’s mouth is his undoing, and his lips are a snare to his soul (Proverbs 18:7).
• A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinions (Proverbs 18:2).
• Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue (Proverbs 17:28).
• The quiet words of the wise are more to be heeded than the shouts of a ruler of fools (Ecclesiastes 9:17).
• Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is that Head, that is, Christ (Ephesians 4:15).
• The wise in heart accept commands, but a chattering fool comes to ruin (Proverbs 10:8).
• Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly (2 Timothy 2:16).
• When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise (Proverbs 10:19).
• A prudent man keeps his knowledge to himself, but the heart of fools blurts out folly (Proverbs 12:23).
• Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen (Ephesians 4:29).
• Pleasant words are a honey comb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones (Proverbs 16:24).
• A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver (Proverbs 25:11).
• The tongue of the righteous is choice silver, but the heart of the wicked is of little value (Proverbs 10:20.)
• The tongue of the righteous nourish many, but fools die for lack of judgment (Proverbs 10:21).
• The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:4).
• The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life, but violence overwhelms the mouth of the wicked (Proverbs 10:11).
• The words of the wicked lie in wait for blood, but the speech of the upright rescues them (Proverbs 12:6).
• The lips of the wise spread knowledge; not so the hearts of fools (Proverbs 15:7).
• The lips of the righteous know what is fitting, but the mouth of the wicked only what is perverse (Proverbs 10:32).
• Better a poor man whose walk is blameless than a fool whose lips are perverse (Proverbs 19:1).
• Put away perversity from your mouth keep corrupt talk far from your lips (Proverbs 4:24).
• He who guards his lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin (Proverbs 13:3).
• He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity (Proverbs 21:23).
• Rid yourselves of all malice and deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind (1 Peter 2:1).
• A man of perverse heart does not prosper; he whose tongue is deceitful falls into trouble (Proverbs 17:20).
• Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue lasts only a moment (Proverbs 12:19).
• The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in men who are truthful (Proverbs 12:22).
• My mouth speaks what is true, for my lips detest wickedness. All of the words of my mouth are just; none of them is crooked or perverse (Proverbs 8:7-8).
• An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips (Proverbs 24:26).
• The righteous hate what is false, but the wicked bring shame and disgrace (Proverbs 13:5).
• Above all, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. Let your “Yes” be yes, and your “No,” no, or you will be condemned (James 5:12).
• He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy (Proverbs 28:13).
• The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit (Proverbs 18:21).
• Words from a wise man’s mouth are gracious, but a fool is consumed by his own lips. At the beginning his words are folly; at the end they are wicked madness—and the fool multiplies words. (Ecclesiastes 10:12-13).
• Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city (Proverbs 16:32).
• A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense (Proverbs 19:11).
• Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife (Proverbs 17:1).
• Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking; it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5).
• Do you see a man wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him. (Proverbs 26:12).
• When pride comes, then disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. (Proverbs 11:2).
• Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud, but humility comes before honor. (Proverbs 18:2).
• Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall (Proverbs 16:18).
• Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice (Proverbs 13:10).
• If you have played the fool and exalted yourself, or if you have planned evil, clap your hand over your mouth! For as churning the milk produces butter, and as twisting the nose produces blood, so stirring up anger produces strife (Proverbs 30:32-33).
• What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don’t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight (James 4:1-2).
• Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out (Proverbs 17:14).
• It is to a man’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel (Proverbs 20:3).
• He who loves a quarrel loves sin; he who builds a high gate invites destruction (Proverbs 17:19).
• If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other (Galatians 5:15).
• The evil man is trapped by his sinful talk, but a righteous man escapes trouble. From the fruit of his lips a man is filled with good things as surely as the work of his hands rewards him (Proverbs 12:13-14).
• If a man pays back evil for good, evil will never leave his house (Proverbs 17:13).
• The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down (Proverbs 14:1).
• A foolish son is his father’s ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping (Proverbs 19:13).
• A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping on a rainy day; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand (Proverbs 27:15-16).
• Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife (Proverbs 21:19).
• Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife (Proverbs 25:24).
• Wives, be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight (1 Peter 3:1-4).
• Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers (1 Peter 3:7).
• Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing (1 Peter 3:8-9).
• Each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor [spouse], for we are all members of one body. In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold (Ephesians 4:25-27).
• In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice… Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind (1 Peter 2:11).
• If you have been trapped by what you said, ensnared by the words of your mouth, then do this, my son, to free yourself, since you have fallen into your neighbor’s [spouse's] hands: Go humble yourself; press your plea with your neighbor [spouse]! Allow no sleep to your eyes, no slumber to your eyelids. (Proverbs 6:2-5).
• Remind the people… to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and to show true humility toward all men (Titus 3:2).
• Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe (Philippians 2:14-15).
• Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many (Hebrews 12:14-15).
• Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification (Romans 14:19).
• When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer kindly (1 Corinthians 4:12-13).
• Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will (2 Timothy 2:23-26).
• And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you (Ephesians 4:30-32).
• Encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing (1 Thessalonians 5:11).
• Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up on meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching (Hebrews 10:24-25).
• Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves (Romans 12:9-10).
• Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God (Ephesians 5:1-2).
• I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:1-3).
• If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone (Romans 12:18).
• The wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness (James 3:17-18).
• Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ (Philippians 1:27.).
• Aim for perfection, listen to my appeal, be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you. Greet one another with a holy kiss (2 Corinthians 13:11-12).
• Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near (Philippians 4:5).
• Whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him (Colossians 3:17).
• We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5).
• Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold is a wise man’s rebuke to a listening ear (Proverbs 25:12).
• Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance (Proverbs 1:5).
• The way of a fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice (Proverbs 12:15).
• The discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly (Proverbs 15:14).
• He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise. (Proverbs 15:31).
• He who answers before listening—that is his folly and his shame (Proverbs 18:13).
• The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out (Proverbs 18:15).
• Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise (Proverbs 19:20).
• Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge (Proverbs 23:12).
• Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. Do not merely listen to the word and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.
Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it —he will be blessed in what he does. If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless. (James 1:19-26).

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